Welcome. Start Here 👇🏻
It's not an accident that you landed here with me.
I’m glad you’re here. I don’t think it was an accident.
This space is called She Who Makes, and it exists for one reason: to help you remember that you’re a divine creator.
Whether you are creating a body of work, a life, a relationship, or a family: you’re welcome here.
My writing and resources explore relationship.
Why? Because everything exists inside of relationship. Your identity, your experience… your very existence occurs inside of your relationships to…
Yourself.
Your body. Your self-trust. Your intuition.
The Divine.
Nature. God. The universe. Creativity.
Your work.
Creating a business or livelihood. Finances. Raising children. Rest.
Other people.
Your parents. Your partner. Your friends. Your boss. Your children. The stranger who yelled at you at the gas station and you can’t stop thinking about it.
My work invites you to explore, become aware of, and become the conscious creator in your relationships.
How this space works.
She Who Makes publishes on the rhythm of the moon, not a fixed calendar. Each post starts with a lunar and seasonal update to remind you what it feels like to live in sync with something larger. There are three options for participating in a membership here:
🗺️ The Map | Free Membership:
For you if: You're beginning to suspect that the exhaustion isn't the price of a good life. You’re ready to stop comparing your insides to Instagram outsides and hear someone speak the raw, messy truth about life.
Included:
Two essays per month, released on the 🌓 First Quarter and 🌗 Last Quarter. Personal, research-backed, written from lived experience across the four domains of relationship.
Creatrix Conversations, released on the Balsamic Moon - right before the New Moon. This is an inspiring monthly interview series featuring a woman who is currently living as a Creatrix in her own life.
🌄The Path | Paid Membership ($8/month or $81/year)
For you if: You're done with just reading and you want to start bringing the insights you’re having into practice in your daily life. You’d love to hire a coach to help guide you but you have limited resources so you just want to move forward with a small step.
Includes:
Two downloadable resources per lunar cycle: released on the 🌑 New Moon and 🌕 Full Moon. My downloads include workbooks, journaling prompts, printable guides, and meditations — the same tools I design for my 1:1 clients help you move what you’re reading about off the page and into your actual life.
Access to the She Who Makes Resource Library. Everything you need to be the Creatrix in your own life, growing by the month.
First access to workshops and Coven.
🧭 The Compass | Founding Membership ($198/year)
For you if: You want your year to move the way you do: in seasons, in devotion, in alignment with your own design, not someone else’s. You’re ready for more than a planner: you want a real look at your whole life across every domain that matters, held by an assessment, a curriculum, and my coaching, not just self-assessed with a download. This is for the woman who’s done guessing at structure and ready to be given one built specifically for her.
A custom, personalized Devotional Planning By Design guide, a comprehensive PDF mapping out the Devotional Planning Ecosystem and how you can best use it based on your own Human Design chart.
An Annual assessment of your life across all four relationship domains. This includes an in-depth questionnaire, a video recording with my coaching on your assessment, and a PDF guide with a customized curriculum for you to begin your personal journey home to yourself.
Perk for Annual Members:
If you subscribe to my Annual Paid Membership or Founding Membership, you’ll receive an $81 discount on my 1:1 Wake Up Calls: intuitive and somatic-based coaching calls designed to connect you back to your own inner wisdom, gain clarity, and resolve conflict internally or within your relationships. (This discount essentially pays for the annual paid membership.)
Where to start.
You don’t need to read everything. No need to catch up. I write all of my posts so that they can be consumed and interacted with individually, so there’s no order you need to follow.
Pick the domain that is calling to you the most right now. The one you felt a pull toward as you read this.
Here are the free posts I recommend for each of my four pillars:
Relationship to Self
Relationship to Divine
Relationship to Finances & Career
Relationship to Others
I love to connect with people on this platform and do it quite often - Zoom calls, DMs, even penpals. If you’d like to connect too, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’d absolutely love to hear from you.
If you’re interested in my Paid Membership but would like to give it a try before committing, please accept my gift of a free 7-day trial:
About Me:
I’m Cara. A sober woman, a writer, an intuitive, and an Integrative Trauma Coach. I believe the woman who creates consciously — who brings something wholly her own into the world with devotion — changes everything around her. She Who Makes is where I do that work alongside you.
Work with me:
In addition to writing this publication, I also offer:
🌑 Coven | A seasonal, sacred accountability structure for women entrepreneurs and creators who are ready to surrender to what wants to come through them and show up with devotion.
⚡️Coaching | 1:1 sessions and packages for women who wish to move from self-doubt, over-giving, and self-silencing to unabashedly building work, life, and relationships from the divine spark within them.
You can learn more about all of my offerings here.
"The first crack. The first time I chose something true over something comfortable." That line is the whole story in one sentence. Youngest six-figure director at 27 and the thing that actually changed your life wasn't a promotion - it was the moment you stopped numbing. Everything after that - the career you walked away from, the marriage you left, the programs that cost more than they gave - those were just the debris falling off after the real structure started building. The woman who kept saying yes from fear couldn't have written this page. The one who stopped can. Subscribed.